AIBU to ask for help with my underwear?

[Unicorntrainer]

I hope not! Let me explain, I am looking for mother of Bridezilla outfit. I have shown Bridezilla outfits that I think I can live with but nothing suits her. I wandered into a shop this weekend and had a lengthy discussion where lovely assistant suggested I come back in a month (I am on MOTB diet) and bring tights, heels and Spanx etc. This is my problem, I have no experience of 'Spanx etc' and would love the benefit of others experience with foundation undies. I need to be able to move and breathe.

[Jelliebabe1]

Well as my mum would know it, a girdle. Why not go to m&s and look at their range of shape wear . They do all sorts!

[tibbawyrots]

Bridezilla isn't wearing the outfit...

Wouldn't say M&S though, some of their shape wear stuff is weird.

[Gide]

And a matching plastic handbag (if the reception is in the Big Market in Newcastle)

[Scarydinosaurs]

M&S shape wear is pretty good! Start there and think about the likely shape your dress/outfit will be.

[Unicorntrainer]

Ooh, loving the mini skirt and plastic handbag idea, but was thinking white stilettos. A friend of mine tried on 'support wear' from M&S and said it made no difference. I wondered about Gok's stuff?