Long story short.
DS in reception.
Within the first couple of months, my son was hit a lot by another boy.
Quite a few injuries, one quite serious ( split lip and swollen eye on the same day )
Various meetings with the head and teacher and now boy has a one to one the entire time.
A mutual friend between me and the other mum ( who works 4 days a week so only knew her to say hello and goodbye to anyway ) told her how upset I was, that i was meeting with the head and so on as feared for sons safety and other mother shouted at me saying I was over reacting.
After a few weeks we began talking again just in passing and it's remained like that, polite but not over friendly.
Now it's her sons birthday Saturday, whole class invited to her home for it I don't know what to do.
Main reason is that my sons birthday is next month and lots of friends will not come if they come and a few have said I am being really silly putting my child and theirs at risk by inviting him.
To be honest I wouldn't invite him as son doesn't play with him ( but equally isn't scared of him or anything - just accepts he lashes out a lot ) but the mother has made it very clear she thinks parties for reception age kids should be for all children not just a few so feel she would probably go potty if we accept and then don't return the invite.
My gut says don't go but maybe send a present? But worried that my sons missing a party he may enjoy and secondly that she will think I'm holding a grudge which I'm really not! Advice please
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to not go to this party but still feel awful about it?
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Lostandlostsomemore · 15/05/2016 21:15
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