Hi all I have just given birth to my 4th child, with my other 3 births I had a lovely experience and the staff were wonderful. This time however I was concerned about how I wasn't listened to.
I was induced 5 days early due to baby being big, active labour started a few hours after induction , was very manageable at first.
The midwife I had had all day then went off shift and for 3/4 hours I wasn't seen again.
My labour then progressed quite rapidly and I got to the stage were I needed pain relief. Pressed bell, two midwives came in, I asked for pain relief or an examination, both were refused. I was told to have a bath or take a paracetamol and I wasnt due an examination for 4 hours. I explained that this was my 4th child and the pain was becoming unmanageable and I felt close to pushing and was told your not in labour it's hormones!! You may have had 3 other children but you have never been induced before it's different! They then left without another word.
45 minutes later the pain become unmanageable I pressed the bell again one of the same midwife came in, I asked for gas and air she kept asking are you sure you dont look like ur contracting despite me. Bring doubled over on the bed! She then agreed to an examination and found out I was 7/8 cms.... Rushed off to the labour ward and I had the baby 25 minutes later!
Dont get me wrong me and baby were fine but I didn't like the way I was dismissed and refused an examination, Is this worth complaining about as if I hadn't have any other births I may not had pushed for an exam and could have had the baby there and then. I appreciate how hard midwives work just dont know whether the way I was treated could have had more severe consequences for other people particularly first time mums. I hardly ever complain.
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scottishegg · 10/05/2016 18:15
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