Dp and I are expecting our first baby, not married and doubt we ever will be.
I want to double barrel babies surname, I want to share the same name as my children without being married as that's just not what I want. It would also mean a lot to my family to carry on family name as I am the last person left to carry on the name.
Dp thinks that all babies should take fathers surname, mostly because it's 'how it's supposed to be' whereas I feel it's 2016 and we should be moving with the times. Mil has made comments about 'how it should be' that have made me feel uncomfortable.
I'm afraid I am being unreasonable as I'm so emotional I'm not sure when I am hormonal.
But do you think iabu?
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To use both names?
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Tealeaf321 · 07/05/2016 22:17
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