Not been on this site for years, but have just about remembered it, to ask about this. I am really not sure how to go about this... If she was older, I would definitely be saying yes and wouldn't even need to ask!
DD is 9 (in year 4) - she has not yet started puberty. There is a friend, who is a boy, who is on and off being her friend, they sometimes argue, sometimes don't, it's weird, but she is happy, as there is her, him and then her girl best friend.
They have a wooden train in the playground, it has a seat in it and there is a gap under the seat - her friend (I will call him James) said that he doesn't think she will fit under there, because of her size. She isn't big, she is a healthy weight, but slightly on the higher end of it, but still healthy. He is a bit of an irritant with comments like this, but she is bad back... But in different ways. It's more jokey, I think.
Anyway, she wanted to prove that she could fit under there, so she was beginning to crawl through, but on her back, so her face and body is facing to the sky. The boy (who is also 9) leaned over the chair and pinched her chest area (no breasts there, or growing yet) but obviously he had that intend (I assume?) but who knows.
I just don't know how to respond to that? Is it inappropriate or is it not? As she hasn't started puberty. Help/Advice would be fab x
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QuinnJu · 07/05/2016 15:11
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