My first MN AIBU - be gentle!
Last year we paid a fair whack of money to get our garden landscaped as we are not gardeners. It's been left to it's own devices over the winter, and the borders had sprouted several weeds, to the point it was half weed / half plants. I said I'd go and weed last week, but time got away from us both and then it rained. I had it down as a job for tomorrow, as I have a photo of the borders from when they were finished and hoped this would guide me as to which green things were weeds.
I have just got home from work. H got in about an hour before me. As I walked up the front path I could see 2 small bin bags with green in them. My heart started to sink. I've walked through to the back garden and he has "tackled" the weeds. Half the plants have gone, some of the weeks are left. He's destroyed about £80 worth (as I wrote down what plants the gardener had bought and their cost, partly so I knew what the heck they were, and partly to make sure we weren't being ripped off).
H has come downstairs and seen my face "what's wrong?". "You've pulled up some of the plants" I reply. He has stormed off to the bedroom, closing the curtains and slamming the door like a teenager. I'm more pissed off at that behaviour than the plants. He annoyed that he's tried to do a job and I've criticised. I don't feel I criticised - he asked my what was wrong and I said. I didn't say "bloody hell, you've pulled up a load of plants, what were you thinking you idiot man, why couldn't you have waited" (only in my head). He's now sulking in the kitchen.
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DropZoneOne · 06/05/2016 19:17
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