I am now 36 weeks pregnant with my first child after 2 years of IVF (DH issue). First round was on NHS and I got pregnant but baby had what I was told was unsurvivable brain and cardiac abnormalities and I had a TOP. We then had a long period of genetic investigations etc. My parents very kindly offered to pay for the next round of IVF but I thanked them but said no because I can afford it and they are retired, plus my brother has 2 kids and it wouldn't be fair unless they gave the same money to him and also my Mother said something 'jokey' along the lines of, 'obviously if we pay we get to choose the names'.
Anyway I didn't think much more of this as second round was successful and all investigations looking good so far and I am just crossing everything and hoping for the best. Until last week when she asked me about how it felt to be having the most 'expensive baby in the world' and asked if shouldn't I have spent some money on having a boob reduction as if I try to breast feed I will probably 'suffocate the poor little chap anyway'. Granted I am knackered and hormonal but I just went off and cried about this. Is this because I didn't take their money?
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Slackalice42 · 26/04/2016 20:10
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