I'm a lurker normally but today have been second guessing myself and have seen some good advice here so thought I'd see if I was being unreasonable.
Me, dh, bil and sil have all been invited to the same wedding out of town. Bil and sil sorted out their hotel a while back and I sorted ours out at the weekend. There are two hotels that are closest to the venue and I knew sil and bil were booked into one of these but weren't sure which one.
Speaking to sil at the weekend and it turns out we are booked into the same hotel, so told sil this. I instantly got the vibe that she wasn't too happy about this. Perhaps because she wanted to be alone with bil. I'm fine with this but now feel like we'd be imposing. I also got the impression that sil was subtly gutted we had been inHvited to the wedding too.
So taking all this into consideration, I have cancelled the hotel and booked another one (no money lost as book now pay later). If I'm completely honest, I do quite like the idea of us being alone in the hotel because we'd be spending all day socialising so we can get up in the morning and enjoy a child free breakfast which is very rare.
So...I've told dh I've changed hotels and he seemed really pissed off, when I explained itd be nice for us to be alone after spending the day at the wedding, his words were "why do you always want to be alone?" I'm like We very rarely get time together and neither do bil and sil so thought I was doing us all a favour?? Have I got this completely wrong?
Also, I have no problem telling sil that we've changed hotels by explaining that I understand time together is precious so by changing hotels we get a little bit of alone time before coming home to reality! I 100% know that she'll be glad I've changed!
Shall I leave it as it is or swap hotels back??
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shopaholic999 · 20/04/2016 16:29
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