I need your help to clear something up.
My husband says that I am being unreasonable to keep nagging him about things and says it seems like I don't trust him to look after our son.
This is complete rubbish. Things I have reminded him about in last few days (not nagging, just kindly mentioned it in a calm tone)
- we are about to start potty training and I always wash my hands after a wee. I want our son to follow this too. DH thinks it's not necessary to use soap after a wee.
- when washing up an old sippy beaker of our sons milk (had been sitting in worktop overnight) today he didn't use washing up liquid. I said that he must use it as it was an essential part of washing up and we don't want our son to get poorly. He doesn't agree and thinks a quick rinse in water will be fine.
now whilst I admit I am a bit over the top when it comes to cleaning surely I am not being unreasonable here! We have had quite a few tummy bugs since our son started nursery and I'm a big believer in basic hygiene!
I could let these things go but he is certain he is correct and refuses to change.
He is extremely sensitive to criticism and sees even the most minor comment as me "going on or nagging" etc.
Votes please. Who is being unreasonable here?