I'm 19 weeks pregnant with my first child and no one seems excited or interested in it and it's starting to get me down.
I don't get on with my mother. There a lot of long seated reasons and basically she was a toxic person in my life. I reached out with wedding invitations when I got married and she started arguments over it and refused to go, neither did my father. I decided to try again by asking my husband to send her our scan picture. She said thanks but complained she'd already seen it on his Facebook (she didn't look at her messages for several days after it was sent). He replied with lots of info about how I was doing and to text me if she wanted and we never got another response from her.
My sisters ask how I am if I contact them first etc and have given me hand me downs but they have 10 kids between them so I feel like they're not bothered about mine. They don't seem overly interested and don't check up on me or anything to see how I'm doing.
DH's brother and his OH barely mention it if we see them (which isn't often as they live in the south, we live in the north). The OH's sister is 2 weeks behind me but announced much later and when they found out she got a big basket full of baby clothes, toys and pregnancy books etc and we didn't get anything.
We met up with my husband's parents tonight. We see them fairly often. I thought they, of all people, would be excited with this being their first grandchild and they seemed happy when we announced it but they've barely mentioned it. They don't ask about it, it doesn't get talked about, they don't seem excited or interested. They talked about themselves the entire night. Didn't ask how I was. In the middle my MIL asked when the scan is (as it's soon) and if we'd get pictures and that's the only time it was mentioned all night or even hinted at. Last time DH mentioned that no one seemed excited about it and that I'd like it if they were as I'd talked to him about being upset but it doesn't seem to have done anything.
DH is wonderful and supportive but I just feel like no one else cares.
I suffer from depression. I came off my meds to conceive (and they weren't working well) and have been fine up until the last few weeks where I've been seeing the odd symptom. I feel like this is all making it worse but I don't know if maybe it just seems worse because of the depression? AIBU to be upset?
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To be upset that no one seems interested
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Liss85 · 06/04/2016 00:32
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