My 2nd daughter is going to be 9 at the end of April. I've always told them that big parties are for single digits only and that from 10 onwards it's things with small groups. So this is DD2's last 'big' party.
She wants a dance party (basically we hire one of the studios and a teacher and they teach them a routine then give them a party tea and a bit of a disco in the studio).
But there are only 19 other girls in her year. She wants to invite 15 of them so of course I said they all have to be invited. However, one of the girls (who was on DD's list) is an essential wheelchair user and another (who wasn't on the list) cannot cope with loud music and excessive movement around her. Plus my DD has been dancing pretty seriously for years and, along with another dancer and a couple of gymnasts in the year, is becoming just a tad overconfident and show off-y. So my feeling is that it isn't a fair choice of party and that DD should choose something everyone can enjoy equally.
However, I only know this information (about the disabilities, additional needs and my daughter's behaviour) because I teach at the school. So I'm thinking it isn't fair to refuse a party choice based on information which is teacher info not parent info, if you see what I mean.
Plus it's her birthday.
I would be unreasonable to say no, wouldn't I?
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manicinsomniac · 31/03/2016 14:58
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