I'm not sure where to start as I'm very confused and torn though I don't want to out myself. DP and I have been together for 6 years, our first DC was born in December 2014 and I feel like something has massively changed with me. I have no interest in sex what so ever with my DP, I never initiate it and don't particularly enjoy it, it feels like a chore. I'm not affectionate anymore and don't enjoy kissing or even being kissed. That's not to say I'm not pleasant, we still laugh and joke I just don't particularly seek affection. I remember when we first got together, I'd get butterflies and enjoy kissing him so much and we actually had a sex life that I enjoyed. I know things change after having a child but this is a year and a half later and I'm still feeling this way.
At first I thought it had something to do with getting the implant in my arm as a form of contraception as I've been told it can affect your libido but now I'm not sure. He still initiates sex, is still affectionate and sweet and caring but I think he's become my best friend and I'm so comfortable in the routine we have I can't tear apart the routine from a real romantic relationship. I don't know if I've fallen out of love with him or if I'm not attracted to him anymore but the thought of losing him (our maybe just losing what we have?) hurts me deeply but I don't know what to do. A friend thinks I'm simply 'settling' for him but I just really need some outside prospective on whether this is normal or not? Please help?
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MissMarvoloRiddle · 25/03/2016 13:06
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