My son is just about to turn 2 years old and yesterday he had to have one of his testicles removed.
When he was born he had what appeared to be a hydrocele and my GP told me to come back in 12-18 months if the swelling was still present. I went back when he was about 16 months, he was sent for an USS and it showed that in fact there wasn't a hydrocele but that my DS actually only had one visible testicle.
He was referred to the surgeons who decided to book him in for a laparoscopy in the belief they'd find his testicle and bring it down into the scrotum. However, he had his operation yesterday and although the surgeon located his second testicle he said it was very flimsy, would never have developed properly and so it had to be removed. I was so upset and I still am.
I know there are a million worse conditions a child can live with and only having one testicle isn't the end of the world at all but I feel so low about it.
And there is of course the dreaded "mummy guilt" where in some way I have to blame myself for this having happened.
I'm worried about is future, his confidence with girls as he gets older, puberty, bullying, fertility, etc and I just feel so sad and worried for him.
I know it's not an issue for him now but one day it's going to be :(
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Writerwannabe83 · 20/03/2016 14:08
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