I just wondered as I am quite fed up of making all of the effort in all of my friendships and arranging everything, but quite literally if I didn't then I would never hear from anyone/see anyone/go out with friends.
I have in the past had a couple of weeks here and there where I have made no effort because of illness or because I've felt a bit low and heard from no one at all.
Any meet ups, coffees, nights out, even conversations have to be initiated by me, or they don't happen. And this is with all friends, groups and individual. Friends from groups will sometimes arrange to see each other in pairs or smaller groups but no one invites me to these. Basically if I want to see anyone from groups of friends then I have to make the effort and the initiative.
The only person who makes contact with me without me making contact first is my best friend whom I've known since I was little, but we live hundreds of miles apart so can't see each other very much at all.
How much effort do you make to initiate contact with friends?
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BlueberryFanta · 22/02/2016 14:24
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