DD is 8. She will wait outside the bathroom if I'm using the toilet and will follow me up/downstairs. She's fine with school but never wants to be left other than that.
Yesterday afternoon I wanted to pop to the shop to get supplies for a surprise valentine's breakfast for the dc. She was happily playing with her sister but started panicking when she saw me gathering bags to leave. Within minutes she was in tears saying she didn't want me to leave her/that she wanted to come. I explained it'd spoil the surprise and I'd only be 20 mins . She kept crying and sulking demanding to know why DP couldn't go and in the end I said if she makes this much fuss over me leaving to do something nice for her then perhaps I should take more time away to do something nice for myself for once to get her more used to it.
She doesn't care where her dad is or what he does; I feel suffocated. Aibu to think it's not normal to be unable to leave your 8 yo without hysterics?
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SashaFierce99 · 15/02/2016 00:20
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