I'm probably being overdramatic but I could do with some reassurance I guess. My son is three and I'm feeling like I must be getting it all so wrong because he hates everything.
We take him to this little juniors football club Saturday mornings and while the other little ones are loving it and getting involved my son runs around a bit, cries if the coach says hello and then asks to go home after 20 minutes.
He hates arts and crafts and messy play is a total no go.
At christmas he was that kid crying on stage at his preschool play. He gated Santa and wouldn't entertain the idea of any Christmas activities.
Basically unless it involved being free to run in woods, soft play or a park or play in with cars he doesn't want to do it.
He's never aggressive or nasty to anyone, just strong willed and antisocial! We tend to avoid a lot of things now because I know he'll kick off and it'll be a waste of money or time or whatever. Maybe that makes it worse..
It feels like it's only my kid and when I look around at other children enjoying actives and getting "star of the week" for things I just feel sad. I love him of course, he's hilarious, pretty wild and sassy but I'm worried :(
Do I just need to adjust my expectations?
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LouSavage · 16/01/2016 11:11
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