MIL is in her 70s and has quite a lot of generic old age pains like arthritis and problems with her legs. She hates "taking tablets", but drinks a huge amount - I think in large part this is to cope with the pain at night.
The last few years she has been drinking loads, but this Christmas I really started to worry that she has a problem with alcohol. She has a short flight to get here but was drunk when she got off the plane and walked straight in and poured herself a large glass of wine before saying hello. When I pointed out it was the white wine I was using for cooking, that had been open and sat on the side for a week, and offered to get her another one, she said she didn't care.
She got more drunk than even before over Christmas. On the last night she was here, we had a restaurant table booked for lots of family, and she didn't go because she was feeling ill (I can't imagine why). As she had been feeling very unwell that morning, I had written out how often she could take paracetamol and ibuprofen, but suggested she went easy on the alcohol whilst taking them. She agreed. We got home to find her paralytic. She had also been hiding the evidence - she had put a bottle of vodka back in the cupboard with a millilitre left in it and then drunk lots of miniatures, and hidden the bottles at the bottom of the bin.
I know that a lot of people don't like to take heavy duty painkillers, that they can have side effects and sometimes don't work very effectively. But surely trying to work something out with your doctor that works is better than self-medicating with uncontrolled amounts of alcohol? I have never been in her position so maybe I'm being unfair (and she is also a miserable nasty drunk which is definitely colouring my opinion!).
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To think MIL would be better off with painkillers than alcohol?
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Lasaraleen · 29/12/2015 09:47
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