WWYD? divorced 6 years, DS now 8. XH takes any opportunity to email me to complain re contact/failure of skype call with son etc. i have honestly and sincerely supported all contact thus far, even to the point of making meals in my house for them to share and WASHING HIS UNDERPANTS as he lives abroad and lives out of hotel when here. (that all stopped with a call from social services after what they described as a 'malicious anonymous complaint') He has always had access time that suited him, but this xmas (first time) i said no, brief visit from abroad/new partner in tow/over xmas, not suitable. he ignored and came anyway - agreement says should be 'mutually agreed' and this wasn't.
he was verbally quite threatening on doorstep in front of son - i kept saying 'not willing to discuss arrangements on my doorstep in the street thank you...you can't dictate to me like this', then he started to talk about taking me to court, and demanding i give him response to trips at easter and summer hols and accuses me of 'parental alienation'.
skype call disaster today - didn't work out i think for connection issues - and i get unpleasant email as result.
i am very ill at the moment, been quite housebound since mid november and it makes it more difficult to cope with everything. he only reads the emails from me when he likes what i wrote. what to do? solicitor? we are in scotland. phone line advice was 'ignore him' and not to fear his threats.
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bigfatpig · 28/12/2015 23:23
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