When we got married I was disabled and wasn't sure if I'd be able to work again.
Fortunately due to good therapy, physio and surgeons (and hard work) I am back working in healthcare.
This is all relevant as DH chose my engagement ring unseen by me, and to go with it best I chose a wishbone style wedding ring (I actually paid for our rings so there is no expectation of him buying a new one if that makes a difference) and I like them, and when I wear them together they look great.
The NHS has a no stones one ring only policy and then on days off I often forget the engagement ring. The wishbone shape often twists to one side and looks silly.
AIBU to want a new wedding ring that looks right on its own?
DH feels that it's kind of disrespecting or somehow breaking the continuation of the ring coming from the wedding ceremony.
I think if either of us were to gain or lose weight or even lose our ring then the new ring would still be just as much a wedding ring as the old ring.
I know it's trivial but can you help settle this? Anyone had the same sort of thing?
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To want a new/different wedding ring <first world problem!>
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Allthatglitter5 · 18/12/2015 16:20
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