Hi everyone, newbie here so please go easy on me :).
AIBU to think the DP brother should get off his arse and get a job.
Background, DP younger brother (18) at college and is staying with us because we are the closest to the said college. YB gets dropped off in the mornings (college on my way to my work) and picked up in the evenings / gets bus home if he is finished early.
He has been at college since September and all I keep hearing is I'm looking for a weekend job etc etc when actually I found out today he has not put one CV in to anywhere around us for a weekend / evening job and is quite happy swanning around with the gf / mates at the weekend. Please note I think the world of this boy however I feel he is taking the mick now as I am doing all his washing, he is getting food bought for him to make lunches, a proper dinner made for him every night, free wifi, heating, electric (constantly on the phone / laptop to the GF even though he sees here everyday).
AIBU to think that he should be standing on his own two feet, for him to stop being picky about what hours he wants to working when he gets a job (he has plenty time after college and at weekends to do a job in a shop 7-3, 3-11 etc but he doesn't want to do them too much bother!) and to get off my sofa and get himself in some sort of order, I know it is a shock to the system starting college, making new friends etc and maybe I am being too harsh, but to be honest I get the impression he was spoilt and just expects to get everything handed to him without him having to work for anything (which is my philosophy, you want it you have to work for it).
Side note: this is nothing to do with money, no money has changed hands at all this is purely about the fact he doesn't seem one bit bothered and its starting to grate on me.
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kazma15 · 02/12/2015 12:58
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