Ok, so I have (had) two close friends. The three of us used to do loads together.
Friend A, went through a bad patch and I helped her out - which is what you do for friends. All fine.
This friend, then proceeded to throw it all back in my face and generally treat me like crap in return. I being an adult and wanting a quiet life (can't be bothered with drama) cut contact. Life is too short.
Now friend B is also close to A. This is fine, none of my business really. I took the deliberate decision not to involve friend B in the situation with friend A for several reasons - I didn't actually want to turn what happened into gossip out of respect for the friendship I did have with friend A, didn't want to put B in a difficult position and B has her own problems to deal with. Therefore B has heard nothing from me about what happened. Nobody that we know in common has heard a peep from me.
However, since it all blew up, B has been increasingly distant with me. She knows that I no longer speak to A and that's it.
I'm just worried about what A has said to B. I don't want to lose another friend over this.
To honest, I feel like I'm being ignored/sidelined by quite a few people who A and me know in common.
WIBU to say something/ask?
I'm really quite sad about it.
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Polgara25 · 02/12/2015 12:20
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