I have two boys aged 14 and 16. They don't ask for a lot to be fair, my eldest works part time and pays for his own phone top ups, some of his own clothes and obviously his own snacks and days out etc.
youngest gets £5 week pocket money - gets no phone top ups from me (just uses his phone through whatsapp and Facebook, iMessage etc) and doesn't ask for much else really.
I get maintanance for them both from their father and I work full time with a decent salary.
Lately the boys have been asking for expensive designer clothes. I took eldest shopping and bought him £100 worth of stuff from top man, buttons etc but now he's asked for a winter coat and DP has a face on over it saying he's spoilt. But surely the lad needs a coat and at 16 - he shouldn't be expected to buy his own winter essentials on his Saturday job money??
Youngest is really faddy with clothes and so self conscious so I've not bought him new stuff for ages as I don't have the patience for the whining and indecisiveness now however he's asking for timberland boots (about £100), new jeans (£20) and a designer shirt (£50). DP would throw a fit and say no chance. AIBU to at least consider it? I was talking to s friend who spends way more on her kids than I do clothes wise and I feel a bit guilty. It's not like we're short of money but I think dP is totally out of touch with bringing up teens
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MsRamone · 19/11/2015 11:13
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