NC for this as I don't want to out myself.
AIBU. I have several incidents in the past where friends and people I have worked with have asked for my opinion on a matter only for them to turn on me when they hear it. An example from the past was where a work colleague asked me whether she should get pregnant by her physically abusive partner as he has promised not to hit her whilst she was pregnant.
I will be honest, I laughed and jokingly asked what was going to happen after she had given birth. Work colleague then went back to her friends and told them what I had said only to be met with a chorus of disapproval from the rest of the office for my reaction and an explanation that he was a lovely bloke who just got stressed from time to time. My life was made a living hell after that and I left soon after.
The latest is a friend who lives with her partner is looking to get a grant for her son for his further education. My friend was saying she should qualify for the entire amount as she is a single parent. i.e she isn't married. I pointed out that the fund is dependant on household income, i.e. how much her and her partner earns not on whether or not she is married. (She was very quick to point out that as my dp earns over a certain amount I would not qualify).
I have sat in the same room with her whilst how the system works is explained and she still thinks as she is not married then her partners wages will not be taken into account. She is now getting quite aggressive and throwing her weight around with friends who think I am in the wrong and am trying to upset her. Culminating in me not being invited to a special lunch today that I have been asked not to come to because I will just upset her by me being there.
Feeling really pissed off atm. Please tell me I am not going mad
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When people ask for my opinion to not get upset when I give it
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Poohbearandfriends · 19/11/2015 07:13
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