So as not to dripfeed, the background to this morning: I have a surgery upcoming for an ulnar nerve transposition to relieve the pain I've been in for months. The surgeon's office and the hospital are having real trouble coordinating my care (I'm in the US) and I got a call this morning (early enough to wake me up) that I must IMMEDIATELY do a computer-based assessment and then call into scheduling for a THIRD pre-op appointment and and and...basically got my whole morning tied up in a faff, so I was in a mood already.
Ordinarily, our dogs are crated when we're in bed for the night, but not during the day. DH was leaving for work and I said I was going to go try to catch that last hour of sleep. He said, okay, I'll crate the dogs back up then and as I was replying, "No, no need to do that, they don't need to be in the crate for just an hour nap" he cut me off saying ALRIGHT ALRIGHT ALRIGHT over and over. It made me angry, because I hadn't said it in an angry tone of voice and I really resented him trying to silence me so I said "LET ME FINISH!" Now he's been sulking round all day acting as though he's the one who's had someone be rude to him for no reason.
So, AIBU to have demanded he let me finish what I was saying? And WIBU to not speak to him until he offers an apology? I don't feel I did anything wrong therefore "mending fences" by offering my own apology would be insincere. This isn't something he has form for; it's unlike him and I'm sure he has something else on his mind (our DD16 has just been diagnosed with severe depression) but it's no excuse to take it out on me.
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to have said LET ME FINISH very loudly?
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Proginoskes · 10/11/2015 21:54
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