I'm sitting alone in a dark bedroom feeling angry because my DH will not accept that DD (3yrs) should go to bed at bedtime (8pm).
Tonight I spent 45 minutes doing the usual routine, bedtime stories etc trying to get my DD to sleep while my DH spent the whole time shouting on the phone to his sister in the room next door.
We live in a tiny one bedroom flat, and I asked him to go to the kitchen as it's the furthest place from the bedroom and he just shouted at me, then fucked off to the kitchen.
After he finished the conversation, he came and turned on the TV so DD could watch cartoons, and they're still there.
He says all his family speak very loudly on the phone, even if the conversation is not at all hostile.
Five minutes before the bedtime routine started he sat in front of DD to eat a plate of chips, which she loves but can't eat at bedtime as she has severe acid reflux. I had to drag her to the bedroom.
What is wrong with him? He does none of the childcare whatsoever.
Ffs I just want DD in bed so she's not miserable the next day and so I can have a couple of hours to myself
Am I being unreasonable?
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Coffeemorris · 30/10/2015 22:28
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