I'll try to keep this brief.
My DM had a nasty bout of Shingles back in early 2010, leaving her with Hepatic Neuralgia as a result. She's always been pretty liberal with painkillers (has suffered from migraines and endometriosis since her 30s), but since having Shingles she's been on co-codamol 3-4 times a day for the last 5.5 years ...and then using wine every night as a "top up".
She has a prescription for the co-codamol, but prefers to buy Boots own brand as it's less salty and doesn't contain aspartame. She's known to all of our local branches, and is quizzed mercilessly on her usage every time she buys some. She asks family members to get her a pack whenever she thinks we might be going near a chemist. I used to oblige, but feel fairly reluctant to carry on.
My DM is in her late fifties, but as a result of all the pain and painkillers she now has the lifestyle, posture and attitudes of someone much older. She's permanently exhausted, struggles to spend quality time with her friends and grandchildren and yet is a bit of a matyr with the house and garden.
I'm so sad that she's suffering, as the pain from hepatic neuralgia sounds awful to live with, but I'm struggling with her use of codeine. I haven't seen the prescription, but surely if it's being prescribed then it's safe to be taking it day in day out? I just feel like she doesn't know how much pain she's really in, as the drugs have been masking it for 5yrs... But then I've never lived with a condition that would require daily pain relief.
It just makes me sad that my DM has changed so much, and I can't see anything improving for her.
AIBU to feel so uneasy about her use of codeine? And if not, to find a way to talk to her (other than gently in passing as I've already tried) about getting off the co-codamol to see if she feels better for not being pumped full of opiates?
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ToastMama · 05/10/2015 07:02
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