My sister, who suffered with depression and mental health issues, sadly took her own life last week.
Since then I have been a mess obviously barely keeping it together for the DCs. Since then my DP of 10 years has been acting strangely and thinks he is going crazy - he thinks he is cursed and people die because of him. He told me the night my sister died of bad things that happened to him as a child.
He also told me tonight how he had a crazy episode a few months back where he was telling people he had done all sorts of terrible things and thought he was black (he didn't and he's not)- he said it was like someone had taken over his mind!
What I really don't get is why he is just telling me this stuff now?!! So I told him to leave which he did. Is it selfish to just want him to be there for me? I feel like I can't even talk about my sister as he just turns it back on him and how he thinks he is crazy. Just realised tonight that he has hardly asked me how I am this past week.
I felt that I just couldn't deal with these revelations on top of everything and I got quite annoyed with him for telling me this stuff now at all times. Now I can't sleep and am worried what if he does something stupid too?
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zippyone · 01/09/2015 03:37
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