Ex is not interested in dd, which I'm coming to terms with. Met the mother of his other dd and would appreciate others views please.
She said that ex is a c*, and do I want her husband to go round and have a word. Ex had painted her in a very bad light, telling lots of lies. She said he's the liar and chose some more choice swear words. Although kind, she was very forward. Inviting dd and I into her family, and calling herself aunty to dd.
Few email exchanges, and then her asking my address so her dd can bring presents for dd for first meeting. I suggested meeting in a neutral place, and maybe presents could come later. She switched, saying she understands ex hurt me, but I've hurt her dd and offended her family, they've been nothing but kind and open to me etc.
I've emailed her dd to try and arrange a neutral meeting place and no response.
Am I in the wrong? I didn't ask for anything, push myself on her, or say I wanted her husband to visit ex. Feel she has really judged me as I've not followed what she wanted. Upshot of all of this is both dd's haven't met and are unlikely to.
She is very well known in my local area, and has passed me off to people as having mental health issues.
I've not emailed her anymore, and have stopped visiting places she frequents.
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libertysilk · 16/08/2015 10:01
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