AIBU in being reticent in allowing 4yo DS to stay overnight with his father?
Context is history of DV, largely aided by alcohol. As well as threatening me in front of DS, XH also would regularly smash glasses / plates etc leaving them on the floor (and to which I would clear up so no-one would get injured). He would often pass out from alcohol and not get out of bed till midday next day.
XH is living with a couple of mates in a shared house (who I don't know) and I don't know where he lives.
At present contact is during the day, at a contact centre and is working well. Ex wants to move on to overnights.
I want DS to have the best relationship he can with his father so I have fighting to keep it to a time when I know Ex will be sober. Am I wrong in what I'm doing? There is no court order in place for any contact and mediation has broken down
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fawking · 07/08/2015 20:54
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