So we had our lovely dd 3 weeks ago and already have ds who is 19 months. Throughout my pregnancy dp has been saving holiday days up so we could have some flexability after his paternity leave was up (he got 2 weeks, ending at the start of this week). Last night he tells me that he has 19 days still available- great stuff.....but he goes on to say that they need to be used by the end of September and there's no way he's going to fit anywhere near that many in. I thought he had to use them by the end of the year.
I'm a bit upset that there were times that I struggled at the start (morning sickness) and end (generally massive with a toddler)of my pregnancy when I could have really used a hand but he was saving up holidays he will now not use. He's generally been great and his job is one where he can go in a bit late and leave a bit early- which he has been doing but he always makes that time up in the evenings.
I genuinely don't know if IBU. I used to work for myself so know how hard it is to just take time off but surely having a very pregnant partner/new born and toddler is the time to take your holidays? AIBU to think that he should take his holiday entitlement?
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NickyEds · 07/08/2015 10:51
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