I'm going back to work f-t after a decade of working very p-t.
A friend asked if I'm looking forward to it, which I am, but I said I was a bit nervous about how we're going to manage everything after being used to me being at home a lot.
Her response was "why? you won't be doing any cleaning". I've employed a cleaner 2 hours a week. I'll be the first to admit I haven't been overworked since DC started school but my contribution to the household is a damn sight more than 2 hours pw!
We will get used to it and Dc and DH know and accept they'll have to pull their weight more, but we've all been used to me been there to supervise homework, run to the bank, pick up cookery ingredients with little notice, organising and being there for work on the house, school meetings, just making sure life runs smoothly. I also have a number of voluntary/community things that won't just disappear.
Of course we will get it sorted but I think it might take some time to get used to. I feel like the last 10 years of my life has been dismissed as cleaning....
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FurtherSupport · 05/08/2015 08:35
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