i have had very little sleep so may have lost the plot.
We are moving house in a week. I have started packing up the house, arranged movers, storage etc. I asked Dh months ago to book some time off work to pack or do it in the evenings/ weekends, but he didn't. So last weekend I cancelled a visit to my family so that he could spend the weekend packing while I look after ds.
I was only asking him to pack up his stuff. Not mine. Not ds's. Not shared things. Just his clothes and work stuff and huge collection of kitchen machinery.
I have taken three days off work to do EVERYTHING else to do with the move (including meeting builders and estate agents etc).
And he hasn't done it. He's packed up his office. In unmarked, unsealed boxes that are impossible to tell apart from rubbish. But not his clothes, the kitchen, the miscellaneous boxes of crap still lingering from the last move.
He left for work this morning saying, "try to get some rest today." Rest? Rest? Rest???? Firstly, I never effing rest. I work 4 days a week and look after ds. Secondly, even if I didn't give a monkeys about my job, only one of us gets to decide not to put any work into keeping the house together. And it's not me. I am so angry. Tell me I am being unreasonable, and how I can get some perspective.
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knightfall · 28/07/2015 08:40
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