At my wits end with my 4 yr old DS. His behaviour at home has deteriorated over the last few weeks. Always been an attention seeker (understandable to an extent as we also have 3 and 2 yr old boys) but we have always made the effort to spend quality time with each boy individually too. Nothing is ever good enough for him, starting arguments from 5am each day, the slightest thing will set him off. Rude to me especially but now also to siblings, grandparents, aunties and uncles which they have noticed. Apparently angelic at nursery according to the end of year report they sent home today. Read like they were discussing a different child.
Worn down from living in a battleground and must be doing something wrong as he seems so angry all the time. He actually hit me round the face with his sun hat yesterday which felt like the final straw (not 100% sure it was deliberate as mid-tantrum, arms swinging etc). I try to remove him from the situation by putting him in his room but he bangs on the floor and shouts and screams so loudly I'm surprised NDN haven't called Social Services :-/
My DH has booked the day off next Friday so we can have a family trip to the safari park. Would I BU to tell DS if behaviour doesn't improve he can't come? Feel like he needs a short sharp shock but would also feel very guilty if he missed out as seems like he's always in trouble :-(
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To stop my misbehaving 4yr old from coming to the safari park?
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britespark1 · 02/07/2015 07:05
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