I am early 30s. BMI around 20. Have always struggled to gain weight so would love to get fitter, build muscle, tone up and gain weight healthily as opposed to throwing empty calories down my throat.
I've never set foot in a gym. I currently do no exercise. I really want to join one but I'm terrified! I wouldn't know what do do, how to use any equipment, where to start etc. I keep looking online at the posh lovely gym near us, just saw a pic of the pool and was flooded with the thought of 'what if all the lanes were full, what's the etiquette?'. I know how silly this sounds but I've always had anxiety and I feel it's standing in the way of me starting a health kick. Im a stereotypical introvert. I wouldn't even know what to wear!
I'm worried id feel stupid in front of experienced gym goers or make a faux pas and embarrass myself. I'm well aware it's a confidence thing and in order to boost my self esteem, I need to front it out but... Where do I start! What do you do in the gym? As in, once you've walked through the door?
I can't be the only person to have felt this way. I really want to go for it but fear is holding me back! I wish I was more outgoing and confident.
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MallyBoo · 23/06/2015 18:24
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