I am keeping this vague as so many bits can out me entirely...
I agreed earlier in the year that I would meet up with a friend for a catch up.
We see each other once or twice a year and go to dinner or a show, we used to spend a lot of time together pre-DP/DD.
Since agreeing this meet up, my circumstances have changed hugely. (Change of job = drop in wages). My friend is single and lives in a house share so I don't think appreciates how frugal my life is.
I had offered to go to a show that he is crazy about. I had budgeted in my head a maximum of £60 for this. Friend was delighted that I would go, gets over excited overnight and books the tickets.
I asked how much I owed and he said £175, I said I'd bank transfer my half. "No, it's £175, I got front row seats."
So I was annoyed because I don't really fuss about this event and this is more than double what I had intended to pay.
"You can pay for the hotel."
Which I duly have, although get again, I'd previously envisaged splitting this cost down the middle so its a good £100 or so more than I was happy spending.
So I wrote this off to experience and we were chatting about what else we could do while we were at the show. I said that there's a few places I'd like to go and maybe the night before we could go to the theatre and book last minute (if you're not fussed about what you see you can get tickets for £20odds).
My point was that it would be fun to do something spontaneous.
Instead, overnight, he has booked tickets to a specific show that I have no interest in seeing! So again I am paying a premium.
How would you broach this? This is meant to be a joint weekend and I find myself wanting to go less and less.
Also I now realise its booked during Pride (which is fine but not the weekend I was wanting. He goes every year and I don't see how I am going to circumvent this one if we are right in the middle of it all.)
So Aibu and what the hell should I do?
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TrollTheRespawnJeremy · 22/06/2015 11:07
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