Blatant posting for traffic, apologies.
Ds is 16 months. He is a really good, easy child as they go, so shouldn't be complaining.
However he is is a one year old and there are things I'm finding hard, partly because I have a bad/ weak back.
- He is into everything. We can't gate the bottom of our staircase as it goes round a corner, although he now rarely goes for the stairs. He is forever climbing onto tables (low ones) or anything else he can manage. You know the kind of stuff. Any tips for keeping toddlers safe without breaking my back forever bending to stop him? And to get on with other stuff occasionally? Even at swings it is hard as he tries to climb the big climbing frames!
- For when he annoys his sister (she is 6 which is why I have forgotten everything!). Do people allow their younger dcs to be forever grabbing the stuff the older ones are using or do you spend your whole life pulling them away and finding a distraction? He doesn't have all that much language yet, just a few words although I know he understands more.
- The beginning of toddler tantrums. Refusal to sit in his chair, plus learning to get out of the straps so as to stand up. Screaming at the back door to be allowed out to see the guinea pigs when it's not convenient to go with him. General toddler shouting to do the stuff he wants to do but can't.
Any tips?
Sounds from post as though I need a parenting course as I don't know anything! I have ways of coping like everyone but can always have someone else there or spend whole time out of the house/ in the smart trike.
I have a dh who is very involved and happy to field toddler when he's there etc so I can concentrate on bigger one or whatever, but obviously we each need to be be able to cope alone.