my DH was looking after my 3 yr old whilst I was drying my hair upstairs. He was looking after him much earlier in the garden whilst I was doing a bit of work and I mentioned a couple of times that I noticed DH kept doing some clearing up in another part of the garden and wasn't really watching him. DS is very active and has no sense of fear and .. Only 3!!
Before going upstairs I checked by saying "you are with him -you cannot leave him on his own". DH reassured me
I came down 10-15 mins later. Music was on loud and my DS was nowhere to be seen. I asked DH where he was and he replied "in the garden". I went outside and couldn't see him. I then started running around panicking and it's clear DH hadn't been watching him (or he would know where he was?). I ran down our long (and partly hidden from view) garden, around the side, my husband went out the front, I called over to the neighbour -nothing. I was then really worried so called into the house to my teenage DS to help look. By this time I was really upset.
We found him on the front porch semi-naked (no idea why he had no shorts or pants on but I guess a hot day!) and clearly DH did not see him when searching out the front. There is a lock on the side gate which DH says he must have undone!
I was really cross with DH. Yet again he failed to watch him properly and I told him so. However, I have been told the problem is more my "over reaction" at being so worried. Even my eldest DS agrees that I over reacted. Surely it's natural to worry??! And it's so frustrating that I cannot trust DH to watch him - he just doesn't seem to see the dangers I do.
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kidks · 07/06/2015 14:54
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