I am not close to MIL and the relationship between her and DH is very strained, but I always make an effort to be pleasant to her when we meet (not very often). I have always found her to be very cold and uncaring and completely disinterested in our lives and dc, although she would no doubt disagree as she likes to give the opinion to her friends that we she is a loving parent. Recently I had a bad accident resulting in painful injuries to my arms, legs, face and a broken arm. It was all pretty traumatic. MIL was supposed to be visiting that weekend but when DH phoned her she said 'whats ilove doing?' (she knew I had hurt myself as SIL had told her). DH said 'she's broken her arm etc) MIL said 'oh I won't come then'. DH replied 'Well we could meet up for the day and she said 'No lets leave it'. That was the conversation. She never asked how I was, how we were coping, nothing. Not heard from her since. I am so hurt.
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ilovecatsanddogsbest · 06/06/2015 19:33
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