PILs were born in another country and then came to the UK where they met and had dh. Today fil was skyping a relative in birth country. Relative asked if our dcs would be joining pils on an upcoming trip to birth country. Fil said 'No, they won't be allowed'. I was in the room. It sounded like he's a bit pissed off that dh and I won't allow it.
Are our reasons unreasonable?
- It's a bloody hot country, dcs and I have fair skin and dislike the heat.
- Dcs are 3 and 5months and it's an 8 hrs flight.
- I don't want to spend 2 weeks with my in laws and extended family. I like them, just not loads.
- One part of the country where we would visit is unsafe according to the foreign office. There have been several terrorist attacks on westerners and western ways of life. The holiday home isn't very secure and I'd have to watch the dcs like a hawk.
- Fil thinks it's totally safe and is a bit arrogant in the fact that he's a 'local', despite having left the country 40yrs ago. I fear this attitude might gets into sticky situations.
If I was your dil would you think I'm U?