I'm abroad with my husband as he has a work secondment here, and I'm on maternity leave with second child. I've been paying £400 a month into a joint account used for shopping / bills etc out of around £600 smp a month, and mentioned to him that I would need to take some money back out of the joint account to live on when I'm getting nothing for last 2 months, to which he grumpily replied 'if there is anything to take'. I generally spend the other £200 a month on the children anyway, as we don't have much of a social life here I've been trying to take them out a bit the odd hot chocolate in a cafe etc. As we are here to support his career progression I've put off going back to work when my baby is 10 months as planned. Finding the whole thing a bit depressing. He's not spending vast amounts of money on himself at all, earns relatively well but has quite a lot of credit card debt, partly from doing flat up in England and just general living. I supplemented myself through last maternity leave with inheritance, the remainder of which was used as a deposit for our flat. Aibu to be worried / depressed about this situation?
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Lucyloves101 · 27/05/2015 20:53
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