I've just found out that I'm universally not liked in my workplace.
It stems from when I joined the organisation I was tasked with doing something that I'd been shadowing in another job and which the new organisation wanted to bring in, so I was seen as an 'expert' even though I'd only watched in the past.
I couldn't do it completely by myself (as there were presentations to clients, etc) and it meant that new colleagues had to do over and above what they were expecting for a little while (which they did, a little resentfully) and I did do the thing the new organisation wanted.
But the effect of this is that all my new colleagues hate me.
And the only reason I know this is that there's a newer colleague to me and we get on REALLY well, and she asked me why everyone else (including people I've never spoken to) all hate me.
I want to shout "IT'S NOT FAIR: I was TASKED to do this in my first week of work,and knowing NO ONE and I couldn't say 'no' on the grounds that in your first week, when no one knows you, you want to do 'can do' if you are asked"
Perhaps I'm also just horrible? I think I probably am.
Thank you for reading.
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Fatmomma99 · 23/04/2015 00:18
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