I've namechanged so I don't out myself.
A few months ago I met a woman at my ds school. She seemed really nice, friendly and good fun. In the following months we've become good friends of a sort. We go for lunches, have taken our kids out for dinner together and generally get on really well.
The problem is this. She bitches about another woman that I vaguely know. She on the other hand is/was apparently good friends with her. She makes accusations that this woman has stolen from her but never says anything directly to her. She lies to her (and other people as far as I can tell) in my presence (via txt) but always assures me (with no comment or prompting from me) that she would never do this to me.
She does on the other hand make plans with me and then cancels at the last minute (blaming either hangovers or her boyfriend).
I'm feeling like a bit of a mug because I think shes realised that I'm pretty much alone and sees me as someone that will be there for her, as and when she wants but is equally happy to drop me when I'm not needed. This is what im beginning to think has happened with this other woman. I also think she 'dropped' her for me.
Her credibility isn't good. She obviously trusts me as she's told me many things that could get her into trouble but all of these things have involved her lying to other individuals or government agencies.
I'm feeling a bit weirded out by her. I'm also a bit gutted. I'm a lone parent and don't have many friends or support. I was really hoping when we met, and got on like we did that we would become good friends. I find it very hard to meet new people and making new friends is difficult for many reasons, including very rarely being able to leave the house without my dc.
i don't know what to do. I'm a bit lonely at times (like other Lps I'm sure) and Its been really nice having a friend that seems to like me and likes spending time with me but I don't trust her. I wonder a bit if she's seen an easy mark in me and at some point I'll be headed the same way as her other 'friend'.
WWYD? keep the friendship going as is...or start creating a bit of distance?
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IThinkUStink · 08/02/2015 22:34
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