If someone (with no history of depression or another other MH issues) said to you they had been thinking of a way they could be injured enough to be signed off work, what would you say to them? (Examples given such as broken bone - not cutting or anything similar).
She is in very stressful and constant, high pressure environment but as the sole bread winner with a mortgage dependent on the money it's not as easy as 'just resign'.
It's not the type of job she can leave at work either, it's hours and hours of work outside of her working day.
Would you advise her to go to the gp?
That was my apparently silly and unhelpful advice - she won't as she is being assessed as an adopter and is worried this would go against her (plus the fact she wouldn't have a way to support the child).
She feels she can keep going for another few weeks and she will have a little bit of time off. Due to her job and it being privately run there is no HR or similar to get advice from.
(This is my SIL. I spoke to MIL (her mum) and she was rather unsupportive).
Where is the next step from here?
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To think if you are considering ways to injure yourself to avoid work then maybe it's time for a change?
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Emotional101 · 17/01/2015 19:02
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