to ask was he rude?

[homealone42]

Received presents from my sister. Dh,s 2nd gift was a toiletry set including a body spray and shower gel. he commented that its a shame you can't get sets with more than 1 body spray as he uses more of these.I received a toiletry set. He replied we can now open a 2nd branch of superdrug. I do own rather alot of tiletries, make up etc tbf.
so was he rude as I seem to be finding fault all the time lately so need to know aibu.

[InfinitySeven]

No. It's a throwaway comment, really nothing to get upset about.

[GlitzAndGigglesx]

Lol no he wasn't rude at all

[RonaldMcDonald]

not rude

[homealone42]

ok so I am reading too much i to it. Just seemed a little ungrateful as he was implying my gift was unnecessary and he would prefer a different set to the one purchased. Thanks for putting me straight.

[WaywardGirl]

Not rude in itself, though it sounds like this could possibly be part of a wider issue with slightly snide or put-down (not phrased that well) comments.

[WaywardGirl]

I mean, if he has form for ruining nice things with miserly comments then would read it a bit differently than if it was a one off.

[homealone42]

although the superdrug comment may have been a little dig at me as he has history for accussing me of hoarding. My toiletries and books are hoarding but his football programs and lego are collections.

[homealone42]

waywardis posdibly spot on. Last year we were with his folks and he said he couldn't sleep due to my snoring in front of everyone and said x was a better driver than me and calls my family the outlaws. All probably innoccent on their own.