First post on here although I read the board regularly and would appreciate your advice.
We live in a terraced house (me, my husband and 2 month old son). For the past year we've had trouble with one set of neighbours as their dog barks continously as soon as they leave it alone in the house.
Normally they go out every Friday evening and the dog literally barks the whole time from the moment they leave the house until they put they key in the door on return, it also happens usually 2 or 3 nights a week, we have mentioned this to them previously (when the barking has exceeded 2 hours) but nothing has been done and they (particularly the man) is aggressive so I don't feel comfortable approaching them directly again).
After a particularly bad week where the dog was once again barking for hours on end (until midnight) I emailed the local neighbourhood police team asking for their advice ( I have written to the council previously but they were useless all they did was send me a leaflet on how to calm a dog and told me to post it through their door which I did). The neighbourhood police team responded stating that it's a council matter but as we are not the only ones to complain they would have a word with them which they did last monday.
On Wednesday (xmas eve evening ) the dog had been barking for over 3 hours non stop again so in desperation I posted a letter through their door again asking them to take action, Informing them how loud the barking is and it's continous and that we have a 10 week old baby and it's beginning to really effect us.
At 11pm they returned home (dog stopped barking immediately) and they obviously read the letter. We then heard the man shouting and swearing saying this is war, that they don't believe the barking is as we say and they will report us to social services whenever our baby cries (note our baby does not cry for long periods at all, I am breastfeeding so can feed him instantly when he wakes at night and the few occasions he's been really unsettled we've taken him out in the car/for walks to soothe him, we do not let him cry for long periods of time).
My husband thinks we should just leave it now and put up with the barking as he doesn't want trouble or the aggressive man to potentially confront us and maliciously contact social services.
I know in terraced housing you expect to hear your neighbours and we would never complain about normal household noise and I understand that of course all dogs bark occasionally, we've only ever raised the issue when their dog has been barking for hours on end and it literally fills every room in our house.
Am I unreasonable to want to pursue this issue or should we just drop it because of their threats to call SS and the fact the man is very aggressive? is it unreasonable to think a dog continously barking is different to a baby occasionally crying? I believe the neighbours the other side to them also complained as we heard them confront them one evening after the dog had once again been left alone and barking for hours, those neighbours then moved away quite quickly afterwards.
Sorry it's long but your advice would be much appreciated.
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parky123 · 27/12/2014 14:32
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