I got married a month ago and have just returned from honeymoon. We met up with our friends on Saturday for a pre-Christmas gathering and it was the first time we’d seen everyone since the wedding. Feeling a little deflated – no one was rude about us per se but I feel as though between them they have gone through our guest list and taken the mick out of people. “God, so and so was embarrassing”, “X took an instant dislike to X” and so on. Most upsetting was an issue which concerns an old friend from school. She is going through quite a tough time at the moment and I think it is taking its toll on her quite a lot. She’s just not herself and acting extremely out of character. She was an embarrassing nightmare at my hen night and by the sounds of it got quite drunk and said a couple of inappropriate things at the wedding. A friend on Saturday remarked how she made an idiot of herself on the dancefloor with another male friend (who by the sounds of it was quite interested in her” and had to be pulled off apparently. After the hen do, I was quite disappointed as it seems she went down like a lead balloon and was a bit of a laughing stock. After I was told about “something she had done” at the wedding I actually said to everyone that she was going through a tough time and that I was concerned about her, I’d had enough. I care about her and she is more than a source of idle amusement to me and I hate that she has become this person because she is just lovely.
I’m feeling oddly deflated. I just wonder if they spent the entire evening slagging everyone off?! I feel as though I’m going mad by questioning a group of friends we’ve known for years??! I just think that if I were in their situation I a) wouldn’t say these things in the first place and b) wouldn’t want to sour the wedding of my friends so soon
PLEASE tell me I am being over sensitive and U. They are not horrible people but I think just a little thoughtless.
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Is this just something that happens after a wedding?
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KatePark1 · 15/12/2014 15:15
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