To set the scene: I'm on the maternity ward. I'm told that they're not too busy at the moment. I'm 19 weeks pg and have hyperemesis plus a bleed. I was admitted on Thursday and hopefully going home later today. It is normal to be given a menu at breakfast for lunch and dinner choices to be made. I did question the fact that I hadn't been given a menu (as I know what foods are more likely to stay down and it's not necessarily obvious ones so I would prefer to choose). I haven't been off the ward so could have filled the menu in.
For some reason, one of the midwives filled out a menu for me and without telling me. I'm sure that she had good intentions but... Well let's just say parsnip and rosemary soup did not stay down well. I wouldn't order soup because I know that I can't stomach it. Similarly I've been given ice cubes to suck on rather than water to drink because they know that I can't stomach large volumes of liquid ie drinking water. I really hope that I don't have to stay in longer because I haven't kept dinner down. I can't help but wonder why they didn't just ask me if I could cope with looking at the menu or at least order me a full meal so that I could pick and choose?
Anyway, go on, tell me that I'm unreasonable, precious, ridiculous (and very hungry!)...
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NoRoomForALittleOne · 06/12/2014 12:30
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