Dh's family are not fond of me. I don't care enough because I only have to see them at super super important family events (like Christmas) and usually I sort out a XMas holiday so that I can avoid them around this time of year. However, I am finding myself too busy at work to organise time away at Xmas. Almost without a doubt it looks like I will be spending this Xmas with my Inlaws.
My Darling Sister has met a lovely guy just over a month ago at a social event. Ever since they met, he has made a 4 hour journey every weekend in an effort to see her and get to know her. This has been going on for 6 straight weeks now. So far, they are non exclusive because they are still getting to know each other.
This same guy, was supposed to be introduced to my SIL through mutual friends he shares with SIL. However, just over a month ago his mutual friends informed her that he had met another girl that he likes and is now no longer interested in meeting her right now. This is all according to SIL. SIL knew this guys name and what he looked like-(probably through facebook)-he did not know her name or what she looked like. This is according to SIL.
My DS took this guy as a date to a party that we were all invited to. SIL was also invited (we didn't realise she knew the same people). SIL took DS to the side to let her know that she was supposed to meet him, but he met DS on his own before their blind date ever happened. However, another nosy Inlaw has taken it upon herself to set this guy up with SIL because my sister and him are not exclusive.
AIBU to ask the three of them not to date all at the same time? Just because it will be awkward for me for the rest of my life. There isn't enough wine in the world to get through Christmas as it is, I definitely wont be able to get through it if Sister and Sister in Law date the same guy at the same time. It's just too eww for me and dh.
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hydeparkhottie · 03/12/2014 12:23
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