Looking for advice really...
My OH has a terrible phobia of vomiting. I'm always sympathetic and I do everything I can to relax him and calm him down, but it's starting to take over our lives. We can't travel any sort of distance, special events are a big trigger so they're becoming a nightmare, we can't go to new restaurants, he's obsessive about what we cook etc.
We have a 4 month old and I'm dreading her picking anything up because I know my OH won't be able to deal with it. If I'm ever feeling poorly I feel like I have to lie to him and tell him I'm fine because otherwise he'll get scared of picking something up himself. What are we going to do when she goes to school and gets bugs left, right and centre? What if me and DD are sick at the same time?
This morning he told me he got no sleep last night (sleeping in separate rooms for now because of LO), because his friend who he hasn't seen for THREE weeks told him he'd been sick and OH was convinced he'd pick something up.
I'm doing my absolute best to be supportive and I know it's not his fault, but he won't go to counselling because he's scared they'll do exposure therapy with him. Does anyone have any idea how to deal with this?
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To be losing patience with OH's phobia?
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Bean89 · 25/11/2014 16:46
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