My mum stays abroad (country where I grew up). She phoned me last night to say my DS (currently 9months) should be christened next year. I've agreed previously we will christen him even though neither me or my DH are religious. However, due to financial reasons and other holidays already booked we won't be able to go to the country where I grew up at least not next year.
My mum then says she will come and take my DS and take him back to hers and christen him...what? I said to her that that won't happen without me and my DH. This really pissed me off.
She has previously said about how she will take our DS on skiing holidays once he is 4 and how he will spend his summer holidays at their house. I realise this is quite a nice gesture. However, she's never actually asked us or suggested it as an idea, just stated it as a fact.
My mum is a bit of a bully, she doesn't have any patience, she always finds something to argue with my dad about, and I don't have many happy childhood memories because of that.
I don't want my DS to experience any of it. I'm happy for them to visit us (which they do every 2-3 months) or we visit them, but I don't want my mum to just take our DS and go places for weeks at a time.
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ivybee · 25/11/2014 11:38
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